Living the crazy life that God has given me!

Be the Husband that loves His wife

In my office I have several pictures on my wall of my family.  There are the pictures of the kids doing different things like football and volleyball.  There are the way out of date family pictures where they are all shorter then me. (Not so now.)  But there in the center of all of those pictures is the one that you can see below.  It is two pictures of my wife in a frame done by some very special friends in Miles City, MT at “Unique Creations”.

A reminder to me of the importance of being a husband.

A reminder to me of the importance of being a husband.

In between the pictures you can see some typed up lines.  Those lines are some verse from the bible that I think are important for me to remember when it comes to being a husband.  They are the following:

Proverbs 5:18-19 (Msg) Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!  [19] Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose— don’t ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted!

I can imagine some of you asking the question, “Why are these verse important to being a husband?”  That is a great question and I am glad that you asked it.  It is important for me to remember as a husband because a husband needs to remember that his wife is a fountain of love in his life.  That just like a fountain that we see in a mall that if not taken care of can become unpleasant.  If the fountain is not always being refreshed it eventually can become stale.

That I am always to enjoy the wife of my youth.  That whether we are twenty five or seventy five she is the standard of beauty in my life.  That everyone and everything can not compare to her beauty. That as we grow old together she will always be the wife that I fought for, the wife that I wrote poems for, that wife that I chased after, and that should always be the way that I treat her.  As the young husband that worked so very hard at making sure that she knew she was the only one for me.

That I am always to be sexually active with my wife.  Now I am sure that some of you are thinking well that is not something you have to work at you are a male.  Your right, but there are things of this world that are very busy trying to get me to not focus on my wife whom I love.  The things out there are pornography, strip clubs, jobs, sports, and even friends.  These are things that can if I let them, keep me from making sure that I am loving my wife emotionally and physically.  I believe that for some reason men have bought into the idea that when it comes to sex that their needs are the ones that are the most important.  Unfortunately if you are a husband and that is the way that you think then at least one person is enjoying the whole minute of pleasure.  I am just saying.  Maybe if we took the time to make sure our wives were pleased or wives would take the time to make sure we were.  I am to take delight in her and only her.

Then finally I am to “Not take her love for granted.”  As a husband I am to always be seeking to make sure that she knows that she is loved.  Not that she feels that she is loved because feelings can change with the weather.  But that through my words, my actions, and my life that she and those around her know that she is loved.  That is why these verses are important to me as a husband.  I heard this statement a long time ago, “Maybe if there was more courting in marriage there would be less marriages in court.”  Guys it is time to be step up and be the husband that your wife needs and desires.  So why not ask her today if she knows that she is loved.  Maybe, if you have the guts ask her friends if they know she is loved because if she is not then they will surely know. Take the time to work more on your marriage and the relationship with your wife then you do your fantasy football league.

Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!
[19] Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose—
don’t ever quit taking delight in her body.
Never take her love for grantedProverbs 5:18-19 (Msg)
Bless your fresh-flowing fountain!
Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!
[19] Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose—
don’t ever quit taking delight in her body.
Never take her love for granted!
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One response

  1. AMEN! Well put! Thanks for the post. Take care.

    October 10, 2009 at 4:04 AM

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